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(This article was extracted from the puritan John Flavel, (Works, vol. 6, pp. 586-589), and rewritten in modern language. It first appeared in The Protestant Review from Australia. It must be pointed out that the abbreviation of the original may appear simplistic. Clearly many more Scripture passages could be brought to bear concerning the issues raised, but the object of these brief points is to provoke thought and self-examination.)

Ten Point Check-up


There are ten sins of which church members are frequently guilty. Each of them is plainly forbidden by the Word of God. Because of this, those who indulge in them merit God's strong displeasure. However, as each member honestly faces these issues, the church will receive the fruits of His favor. The ten sins are:

1.    Hypocrisy

How we live before the world is vital. Lack of care and thought about how we live before those outside the church is one of the most common sins of church members. Colossians 4:5 says, "Walk in wisdom towards those who are outside."  By a careless disregard for this rule, we harden the wicked in their sins, bring guilt upon ourselves, and reproach upon the name and ways of God.

2.    Laziness

Idleness or neglecting our duties in your work place is plainly contrary to 2 Thessalonians 3:11,12, "There are some who walk among you in a disorderly manner, not working at all. . .Those who are such we command and exhort through our Lord Jesus Christ that they work in quietness and eat their own bread."  Idleness brings poverty on yourselves and scandal on the name of Christ.

3.    Tale-bearing

Tale-bearing and gossiping includes revealing things which should be kept confidential within a family or between persons. This causes much strife, cooling and quenching mutual love. It is expressly forbidden in Leviticus 19:16: "You shall not go about as a tale-bearer among your own people."  1 Timothy warns about those who are "not only idle, but gossips and busy-bodies, saying things which they ought not."

4.    Receiving gossip

Christians sometimes believe rumors or gossip and take rash action against others on this issue. We ought not to do this against the lowliest member "lest there be contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, backbitings" (2 Corinthians 12:20). We must especially guard against doing this against church officers, "Do not receive an accusation against an elder except from two or three witnesses" (1 Timothy 5:19). This sin strikes at the bond of peace in the family, the church and society.

5.    Neglecting worship

Do you neglect God's worship or the Lord's Supper for trivial reasons? That is, reasons other than works of necessity or mercy. That is contrary to Hebrews 10:25, "not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as it the manner of some. . ." Minor matters [of tiredness or functions] should never hinder us from our chief duty — to worship God.

6. Lateness

Arriving late for worship demonstrates a lack of zeal for God's house. It also shows that you are not expecting God's blessing in worship. "I was glad when they said unto me, 'Let us go into the house of the Lord'." (Psalm 122:1)

7.    Irreverence

Irreverence and lack of seriousness at worship are common sins. "God is greatly to be feared in the assembly if the saints, and to be held in reverence by all those who are around Him" (Psalm 89:7). One evidence of this is an excessive casual attitude towards how we dress for worship. Another evidence of this sin is a lazy posture. The pew is not a resting place. Nor is it the place for idle chatter. Ecclesiastes 5:1 admonishes "Walk prudently when you go to the house of God: and draw near to hear rather than to give the sacrifice of fools."

8.    Reproof

Reproof is universally neglected. We have a duty to reprove sin biblically. "You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him" (Leviticus 19:17). This is Christ's own rule: "if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone" (Matthew 18:15). We are also to receive reproof from our brothers when it is necessary. "Let the righteous strike me; it shall be a kindness. And let him reprove me; it shall be as an excellent oil" (Psalm 141:5).

9.    Disunity

Unresolved strife and friction between members causes divisions. Differences are to be nipped in the bud prudently and promptly, not allowing to blossom into public scandals. The apostle's rule in 1 Corinthians 6:5-6 is "It is so, that there is not a wise man among you...But brother goes to law against brother, and that before unbelievers!. . .Why do you not rather let yourselves be defrauded?"  Paul was always concerned about disunity (1 Corinthians 1:10; Philippians 4:2).

10.    Self-centeredness

Beware of a self-centered attitude. Preoccupation with our own concerns is expressly condemned in Philippians 2:21. "All seek their own, not the things which are of Christ Jesus."  How different was Paul's attitude to his brothers and sisters in Christ. "Who is weak, and I am not weak?  Who is made to stumble, and I do not burn with indignation?" (2 Corinthians 11:29).

Six Blessings That Flow From Faithful Self-examination


1.    Facing these sins and repenting of them will put a lustre on your Christian witness before the world. It will make it look glorious to many who now despise you. "Adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour in all things" (Titus 2:10). Paul says this to encourage us to take care how we live as Christians.

2.    This will attract and win many of the world to Christ. It will wonderfully prosper the purpose of the gospel. "That you may be blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation. . .that I may rejoice in the day of Christ that I have not run in vain or labored in vain" (Philippians 2:15,16).

3.    This will powerfully shut the mouths of all who mock or blaspheme the Christian faith. "For this is the will of God, that by doing good you may put to silence the ignorance of foolish men" (1 Peter 2:15).

4.    This will glorify God which is chief reason for living. "Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven" (Matthew 5:16).

5.    This will bring God's blessing of much inward peace, according to Galatians 6:16, "and as many as walk according to this rule, peace and mercy be upon them and upon the Israel of God."

6. This will insure the presence of God with us and among us, giving us great joy in worship. It will also give us stability and glory in our churches. Why? Because Christ walks among the golden lampstands. If we defect from the gospel He threatens to remove our lampstand from its place — unless we repent (see Revelation 2:5).