WomenDeaconsAndDeaconesses?

 

Many have used 1 Timothy 3:11 to substantiate the position of women deacons. The commendation of Phoebe in Romans 16:1&2, is usually used to further support this claim. I believe this position is not a biblical one and should be avoided in our church and all biblical churches. My reasons are as follows:

1) Women deacons violate 1 Timothy 2:12 and the biblical teaching of "office." The biblical office of deacon was instituted primarily to distribute to the poor widows in the church. This was done so that the apostles, and later the pastors and elders, would be able to give themselves continually to prayer and the ministry of the Word (Acts 6:1-7). The initial founding principle of the diaconate encompasses the practical matters of the functioning of each local church. "The elders labor within the spiritual realm and the deacons' work concerns the physical realm" is an old, yet true axiom. This does not mean there is no spirituality or godliness about them as they conduct their duties. Instead, with spiritual grace, they will administer the business and practical affairs of the church.

Deacons serve to relieve the elders of any general tasks, when they are qualified and able to do so. They were not called to be a system of "checks and balances" for the elders, but to be "waiters on tables."

The deacons are under the oversight and authority of the elders, and the office, in itself, carries no authority. But, in the functioning of the office, deacons carry an authority derived from the elders who oversee them and maintain responsibility for the proper overall functioning of the church. All authority comes from Christ. Even though diaconal authority is a borrowed and delegated one, nevertheless, it is a very real authority. The authoritative office of deacon is not just a position of function void of authority as some claim. The authority of this office will cause women to violate 1 Timothy 2:12, which forbids them having authority over men.

For further reading on the subject of "office," see John Murray (Collected Writings, vol. 2, pp 357-365).

2) To take 1 Timothy 3:11 as the basis for women deacons is inconsistent exegesis. Let me explain.

A. "Wives" (NKJV; Gk. gunaikòs = "women") in v. 11 is the same as 1 Timothy 3:2, which is without question correctly translated "wives." While it is true that v. 11 is somewhat abrupt and its meaning is contested, Greek grammar and consistent exegesis demands the same translation for both words in this extended passage. There are no rules of Greek grammar or hermeneutical principles of exegesis that allow anyone to translate "gunaikòs" as wife in v. 2 and "gunaîkas" as women deacons in v. 11. Just as no one can use v. 2 to teach women elders, no one can correctly use v. 11 to teach women deacons. In order for anyone to do so, there must be a pre-disposition toward women deacons in the mind of the exegete before coming to v.11.

B. While v. 11 is abrupt, it must be compared with v. 12. When compared with v. 12 it cannot mean women in the office of deacon. In v. 12 deacons, if they are married, must be "the husband of one wife" (lit. Gk. "one woman man") exactly like the bishop in v. 2. Therefore, consistent exegesis demands deacons must be men only.

C. Verses 11 & 12 exegeted correctly mean deacons' wives and not women in the office of deacon. Verse 11 could possibly mean a subordinate group of women who help the deacons, but this is highly unlikely. Should this be the case, they are not to be ordained or in office.

3) The original intent of the first deacons in Acts 6:1-8 mitigates against women in the office of deacon. Many evangelicals today hold that there are certain duties male deacons cannot perform due to the sensitive nature of female issues. Yet, when we come to Scripture and study the first need that arose that caused deacons to be chosen, we see it was a female issue — widows were being neglected. The apostles did not tell the church to choose men and women, but men only i.e. "seven men." If, today's reasoning was followed, women would have been chosen also; but the apostles did not do such. Men were chosen to assist the apostles in this sensitive female issue and women were not even considered. Original intent demands male deacons in Christ's churches today as in apostolic days.

4) The absence of any mention of women deacons (deaconesses) or any women office bearers in the NT further teaches against this position. Immediately, some bring up Phoebe in Romans 16:1-2. The fact she is described as a "helper of many" denotes that she was probably a wealthy person. Many believe she is the one who carried Paul's epistle to the church at Rome. The word "servant" (Gk. "diákonon") is the same word used of any brother or sister in Christ who does a work of service and ministers to others in any way. It cannot be interpreted as one in the office of deacon in the strictest sense. If so, then any Christian who ministers to anyone else is a deacon and the whole church is nothing more than a church of deacons. (Note, the same word is also used of Christ.) Phoebe was nothing more than a wealthy member of the church in Cenchrea who had the means to minister and serve others in an extended capacity. There are no women deacons, deaconesses or officer bearers in the NT.

5) There is no command or warrant to ordain women into any office in the NT, such as in Titus 1:5. Paul commanded Titus to ordain elders, which we know to be men. But there is no command to ordain women into any office. Some take the position that women deacons are not forbidden. The position "If not forbidden, then allowed." is very dangerous. Many things are not directly forbidden in Scripture, yet we must not do them e.g.: genuflection, crossing ourselves, vestments, candles, incense, processions, etc. Rome, all forms of Orthodoxy, Anglicans, Lutherans, liberal Protestants and many evangelicals have always operated under this directive. To them anything not forbidden is allowed. The biblical position is that churches do only those things commanded. That keeps a lot of "strange fire" from coming in among us.

6) No qualifications are given whereby a woman may be judged or evaluated to be fit for such an office, even if the office existed. Some read 1 Timothy 3:11 to mean that Paul was creating women deacons, along with qualifications. If they are equal in office, one would expect they would be equal in qualification for office. If Paul was establishing an office of deaconess, why are deaconess's qualifications less than for their male counterparts? If this was Paul's intention, then the qualifications for women are less than the qualifications for the men found in vv. 8-10 and 12-13. This makes Paul guilty of duplicity by erecting a double standard for the same office. No, Paul is simply saying that deacons' wives must have certain qualities about them. Standards and qualifications for elders are found in 1 Timothy 3:1-7 and Titus 1: 5-9 and for deacons in 1 Timothy 3:8-13, but none are found anywhere for women officer bearers of any type.

7) The last reason is more subjective than exegetical. Historically, women deacons have always been the door that has ushered women into other positions of elder and pastor (minister of the gospel). Trace out the historical decline of the major denominations and you will find this to be true. A very present case in point is the Christian Reformed Church, which recently allowed women elders. How did this happen in such a conservative and biblically based denomination?1 They began with women deacons, then advanced. The same reasoning and biblical passages used to substantiate women deacons were used to support women elders. Women deacons are the proverbial "camel's nose in the tent." We must beware!

In summary, The NT teaches that there are only two offices in the church — elder and deacon (Philippians 1:1; 1 Timothy 3:1-13, Titus 1:5-9). The inerrant Holy Scriptures do not allow women in either.

Rev. Earl M. Blackburn
Trinity Reformed Baptist Church
14407 E. Rosecrans Avenue
La Mirada, CA 90638
(714) 447-3412 (Study & FAX)



1 William Hendricksen in his commentary on Thessalonians, Timothy and Titus held the position that 1 Timothy 3:11 teaches an auxiliary group of women who were helpers of the deacons. It is my opinion that this position opened the door for the CRC denomination to ordain women.